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他以前也會有我現在的煩惱
但是煩惱沒辦法解決任何問題
(看來我們能做的還是很有限)
時間會沖淡一切,如果沒有一直加料的話
沒有安全感,帶著面具...
其實我已經不太確定你到底對我說了什麼
但是我想很多問題本身不存在
只是他們被我們想出來擾亂自己罷了
而帶著面具這件事
反正就是卸下面具 要有自信是吧?
(讓我來偷看一下對話紀錄吧)
要相信彼此 :)))))
而威廉
我們聊對朋友的看法 談我這個人是怎樣的怪法
(我有點想直接post our conversation up)
你說..."so you think friends are only for use?" as I told you that I feel that some friends inevitably fall into the category that I just want to make a good use out of them.
but what I said often contradicts to how I behave, and I am not certain if what I said is right or not either.
然候你開始定義朋友 "friends are the ones who you can trust, just a level of trust different for each one"
接著這東西隔天又被我拿去跟Cathy討論
後來你像往常一樣說我想太多
只是這次講說 "you emo, who always stressed out and depressed"
"need medical attention, stress relieve" 不過我也沒法否認
雖然程度上未必有你說的那麼嚴重
嘖嘖
你又說 "You are so secretive and mysterious" "You don't talk about your family or anyone"
That's so true! :) I smile because I'm glad that you pointed that out, although indeed I think that's one of the major interpersonal skill I have to work on.
Some problems like this are rooted deep down inside of me and I was afraid that what I have learned in Carnegie, in which the class only teaches us know-how, can't
solve my problems fundementally.
We have discussion on this topic for quite a few times, but for me, there was never an acceptable answer.
About what you suggested me "you need to know more people and know them better!", I will start working on it from now on.
前陣子也認識一個酷酷的威廉
可惜沒留下聯絡資料
;)
他以前也會有我現在的煩惱
但是煩惱沒辦法解決任何問題
(看來我們能做的還是很有限)
時間會沖淡一切,如果沒有一直加料的話
沒有安全感,帶著面具...
其實我已經不太確定你到底對我說了什麼
但是我想很多問題本身不存在
只是他們被我們想出來擾亂自己罷了
而帶著面具這件事
反正就是卸下面具 要有自信是吧?
(讓我來偷看一下對話紀錄吧)
要相信彼此 :)))))
而威廉
我們聊對朋友的看法 談我這個人是怎樣的怪法
(我有點想直接post our conversation up)
你說..."so you think friends are only for use?" as I told you that I feel that some friends inevitably fall into the category that I just want to make a good use out of them.
but what I said often contradicts to how I behave, and I am not certain if what I said is right or not either.
然候你開始定義朋友 "friends are the ones who you can trust, just a level of trust different for each one"
接著這東西隔天又被我拿去跟Cathy討論
後來你像往常一樣說我想太多
只是這次講說 "you emo, who always stressed out and depressed"
"need medical attention, stress relieve" 不過我也沒法否認
雖然程度上未必有你說的那麼嚴重
嘖嘖
你又說 "You are so secretive and mysterious" "You don't talk about your family or anyone"
That's so true! :) I smile because I'm glad that you pointed that out, although indeed I think that's one of the major interpersonal skill I have to work on.
Some problems like this are rooted deep down inside of me and I was afraid that what I have learned in Carnegie, in which the class only teaches us know-how, can't
solve my problems fundementally.
We have discussion on this topic for quite a few times, but for me, there was never an acceptable answer.
About what you suggested me "you need to know more people and know them better!", I will start working on it from now on.
前陣子也認識一個酷酷的威廉
可惜沒留下聯絡資料
;)
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